Sunday, October 7, 2007

In God's Arms

And so it was...the period of clarity we were warned about.

After what seemed like some better days, our sweet little Sophie went to be with Jesus on Saturday October 6, 2007 at 11:55 pm.

She died in my arms with Marc right next to us. We believe she went peacefully and without pain. We didn't see it coming, but we realize "we do not know the day or the hour."

Sophie is tumor free with the angels and saints in heaven. We thank God for the days we had with Sophie. Who would have thought she would teach us so much in such a short time.

We ask for prayers of strength and comfort. Funeral info will follow.

123 comments:

Anonymous said...

I have been following your blog for several months and praying for your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Find comfort in the fact that Sophie is dancing in Heaven right now, pain free and able to display her beautiful and wonderful smile once again. You have a great family through your blog of people you have never and will not ever get to meet, but please realize how much you are loved and everyone will continue to pray for you guys. Stay strong. We love you all. Julie from Kentucky

Unknown said...

Dear Quayles:

Sending you love and prayers. Emily, I am so proud to call you friend, you are amazing. God Bless all of you.

Love,
Jeannine and Annie Blatt and family

Anonymous said...

I'm praying for you and Mark. Love Aunt Lynne

Anonymous said...

God blessed you and Sophie by giving you to each other. May He continue to bless you and keep you during this terrible time. May it help to know how many lives you've touched and how many thoughts and prayers are with you now.
MS
Avon Lake

Anonymous said...

Dear Emily, Marc and Sarah,

We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts are breaking.... Sophie is now dancing in heaven and tumor free. She will always be smiling down at us and looking out for our well being. THANK YOU for sharing Sophie with us. We will continue to pray for you - for strength, peace and healing. Sophie will always be close to our hearts. We will continue to work to find a cure for this awful disease - that is our promise. Please call if you need anything - we are here for you.
With LOVE and HOPE,
Kristin, Pete, Peter, Emma, Sarah and Erik Van Euwen

MJ said...

Praying for peace and comfort for you all. Fly Sophie Fly MJ/Angel_Wings

Anonymous said...

Marc and Emily, God bless you and keep you in His arms. Our prayers and thoughts are with you as always, day and night.
Randy and Ann

Anonymous said...

I will keep praying for your family now for strength and healing.I am deeply sorry for your loss.
heartfelt thoughts,
sara somma(bommarrito)

Anonymous said...

I have been following your wonderful family after reading Eleana's story in the Cincinnati paper. I was so happy to read that Sophie got to ride a pony @ the carnival on Thursady and then saddened to hear that she is now an angel. I am sure she is riding a pink pony in Heaven. Saddened in Cincinnati.

Anonymous said...

Know that you and your family have and still are in my prayers. Your family has been a true example of unconditional love. May God continue to hold you in the palm of his hand.
Love and Hugs,
Bethany Houlehan

Anonymous said...

This has been such a difficult journey for you, with a bittersweet ending. May you and Sophie be reunited again in Christ's kingdom. She will be waiting for you with her beautiful smile.

May the Lord be with you!
Niki Haag & family

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear of Sophie's passing. I wish there was something I could say to ease your pain. I have always taken great comfort in this story and thought I would share it with you.

The Brave Little Soul
By: John Alessi

Not too long ago in Heaven there was a little soul who took wonder in observing the world. She especially enjoyed the love she saw there and often expressed this joy with God. One day however the little soul was sad, for on this day she saw suffering in the world. She approached God and sadly asked, “Why do bad things happen; why is there suffering in the world?” God paused for a moment and replied, "Little soul, do not be sad, for the suffering you see, unlocks the love in people’s hearts.” The little soul was confused. “What do you mean,” she asked.” God replied, “Have you not noticed the goodness and love that is the offspring of that suffering? Look at how people come together, drop their differences and show their love and compassion for those who suffer. All their other motivations disappear and they become motivated by love alone.” The little soul began to understand and listened attentively as God continued, “The suffering soul unlocks the love in people’s hearts much like the sun and the rain unlock the flower within the seed. I created everyone with endless love in their heart, but unfortunately most people keep it locked up and hardly share it with anyone. They are afraid to let their love shine freely, because they are afraid of being hurt. But a suffering soul unlocks that love. I tell you this - it is the greatest miracle of all. Many souls have bravely chosen to go into the world and suffer - to unlock this love – to create this miracle - for the good of all humanity."

Just then the little soul got a wonderful idea and could hardly contain herself. With her wings fluttering, bouncing up and down, the little soul excitedly replied, "I am brave; let me go! I would like to go into the world and suffer so that I can unlock the goodness and love in people’s hearts! I want to create that miracle!" God smiled and said, "You are a brave soul I know, and thus I will grant your request. But even though you are very brave you will not be able to do this alone. I have known since the beginning of time that you would ask for this and so I have carefully selected many souls to care for you on your journey. Those souls will help you create your miracle; however they will also share in your suffering. Two of these souls are most special and will care for you, help you and suffer along with you, far beyond the others. They have already chosen a name for you. God and the brave little soul shared a smile, and then embraced.

In parting, God said, “Do not forget little soul that I will be with you always. Although you have agreed to bear the pain, you will do so through my strength. And if the time should come when you feel that you have suffered enough, just say the word, think the thought, and you will be healed.” Thus at that moment the brave little soul was born into the world, and through her suffering and God’s strength, she unlocked the goodness and love in people’s hearts. For so many people dropped their differences and came together to show their love. Priorities became properly aligned. People gave from their hearts. Those that were always too busy found time. Many began new spiritual journeys – some regained lost faith – many came back to God. Parents hugged their children tighter. Friends and family grew closer. Old friends got together and new friendships were made. Distant family reunited, and every family spent more time together. Everyone prayed. Peace and love reigned. Lives changed forever. It was good. The world was a better place. The miracle had happened. God was pleased.

Our little angels are finally pain free!

With Hope & Love,
Christine
Angel Alicia's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/angelaliciamartin

Anonymous said...

I WANTED TO SHARE THIS POEM WITH YOU....hoping it will bring you some comfort as it has me...Love and blessings.. ConnieJo mommyto "the Angel in Heaven's Rainbow Garden" Skylar~Jade 4ever4

"HEAVEN'S RAINBOW GARDEN"
by julie c vincent

I went to heaven's rainbow garden,
And saw flowers on every side,
And loveliness too great to imagine,
Where no good thing was denied.

I heard the angels, there singing,
With songs that I'd never heard,
As joy in the garden was ringing,
With rapture undisturbed.

Then I saw in the distance,
As a Glorious Light from afar,
A vision of our Loving Jesus,
Who heals every broken heart.

He was there in the rainbow garden,
Beside the fountain of Life,
To welcome all of His children,
And sing them songs of delight.

He was there with arms extended,
Reaching to give each a hug,
To give them treasures unending,
That could only be found in His love.

He was there to gather the children,
And remind them there'd be no fear,
As they came into His rainbow garden,
Where every sorrow would disappear.

"But as it is written, 'Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things that God hath prepared for them that love Him. But God hath revealed them unto us by His Spirit: for the Spirit searcheth al things, yea, the deep things of God." II Corinthians 2:9-10

I wrote this poem with prayers for Connie Jo Maxson whose little Skylar Jade now rests in Heaven's Rainbow Garden.

God once made His garden perfect down here, but sin came and that garden is no more. Now there awaits one more lovely than we could imagine. The Lamb is the Light and the beauty defies description. Whatever we have here cannot ever compare to the glory that awaits us in heaven.

Sharing the Love of Jesus,
Julie C. Vincent


www.myspace.com/angelsforskylarjade
www.caringbridge.org/visit/skylarjademaxson
http://tuesdayschild.homestead.com/SkylarJade.html
http://tuesdayschild.homestead.com/SkylerJPhotos.html
http://rememberedbyus.com/SkylarJadeMaxson/#LightACandle
www.icouldbeyourchild.org

Anonymous said...

Dear Quayle Family,

I'm so sorry to hear about Sophie. I have been following your blog for months and have kept Sophie and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Sophie seemed like such a beautiful and special little girl and now she will forever be your angel. May you find the strength and comfort you need in this difficult time.

God Bless you all.

Anonymous said...

I do not know you, but have followed your story. Sophie is whole & smiling now. I am so sorry for your loss & pray that in this difficult time, you will feel your Heavenly Daddy's arms around you.
In my Prayers,
Lashoma Clayton
Louisiana

Anonymous said...

I waqnt to let you know you are forever in our prayers and hearts and thoughts i am so sorry for the loss of your precious beautiful baby girl she is an inspiration to everyone.

Anonymous said...

Dear Quayle Family,
I have followed your courageous journaling of this harrowing ordeal for several months, and am so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. Your faith and love has been an astounding testimony and example for me and I'm certain for the many, many people who have read your blog and prayed for your family. I pray now for strength, courage, and comfort for you all. I also believe that Sophie will return the prayers you sent up for her by interceding on behalf of all her family and loved ones now that she is in heaven with Jesus. May God bless you all.
The Huffman Family

Anonymous said...

My heart goes out to you. I lost my dear son 20 months ago, and I have followed Sophie's story through Eddie Z....a friend from NJ.

I just want you to know that Sophie has not really gone from you. She will always be right here with you. I was told that when my Tom passed and I may have thought it sounded crazy at the time. But I kept an open mind and heart.

In these past months filled with unbelievable pain, there has also been many wonderful signs from Tom that let us know he is still very much with us. I have been able to smile and laugh again...and so will you.

She is happy, giggling and pain free now. And she sees you back here and sends her love. You WILL be with her again. Until that time keep her in your heart. Talk to her...she will hear.

Nothing can really take away the pain you must face....that comes from having someone we love so much move away from us. But I promise you that you will feel more human with each passing month. I will not lie to you and say "days" or "weeks"....because losing a child is a horrific experience that only time can really help...but honest, it does get better.
I can recommend some wonderful books that are most helpful in getting through this awful time....my email address is:
pennypit@yahoo.com.

I am also available to talk to you if you need another mom who has actually "been there" to lend an ear. 440-775-4048

God bless and keep you and the entire family. And your strong faith will sustain you. Even if there may be rough seas ahead.

Love, Penny Maroldo, RN, BSN, Oberlin, OH

Anonymous said...

May you be able to find some solace in your memories of your sweet little girl. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers.

~*~UNTITLED~*~
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning…hush
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!

The Wynockers

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family during this difficult time.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss.

Anonymous said...

Dear Mark & Emily,
I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss of sweet Sophie. She is now free to do all the things that she couldn't do here on earth, and she is healed for eternity. What a special beautiful child. Please know that I am praying for your family. May the Lord send His love to surround you; His peace to flow through you; and His joy to fill your hearts. May He flood your minds with only happy memories of Sophie. sending continual prayers, love & hugs from alabama,
~ashley/angel_wings

Anonymous said...

I have been following Sophie's story right from your very first post. I'm so so sorry to hear that Sophie has lost her battle with that horrible tumor but glad that her pain and suffering are over. Sophie was a precious little girl who touched so many hearts. Please know my prayers are with you and your family at this time. God bless you.

Anonymous said...

I love you Sophie and I love Mommy, Daddy, and Yahoo. I am blessed to call you my friends. I love you guys and i will continue to see you guys forever.
Love,
Mariel Milkie <3

Anonymous said...

I was shocked to read the news of Sophie's passing. I have been following her story since early May. I am so very sorry for your loss, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you will take comfort in the fact that your sweet sweet Sophie is now healed. -Sarah from TN

Anonymous said...

Marc and Emily,
I can't even discribe the pain and sorry I feel for both of you, Sarah and your families. Try to take comfort knowing no one could of done more for Sophie than the 2 of you. Take comfort in the fact that Sophie will always be with you and now she is with God who will watch over her for you. You were right Emily Sophie was God's Brave Little Soul.
Thank you both for sharing your beautiful little girl with all of us.
God Bless and comfort all of you.
Kathy Auvil

Anonymous said...

I have been following sweet Sophie's updates and praying for her. Many prayers and love to your family.

Anonymous said...

Dear Marc, Emily & Family,
Our entire family mourns with you. There are no words to comfort;know we pray that the Lord will give you the strength you will need in the days,months and years ahead.
Love,
The Dorsky Family
Chesterland, Ohio

Anonymous said...

I am so sad to hear of this!!!! I cannot believe the post as I check it daily to see how she is.......I am praying for your loss, however I know she is no living pain free playing and running with the angels. I am so very sorry!

Jason and Cori Bailey
Disney Cruise

Anonymous said...

May God give you the strength to get through this. I will pray for you!

Anonymous said...

You have been an amazing example of the Good that God places in the most challenging events of life. God gifted you with this beautiful child because your faithfulness and strength will be an example for all of us.
Sophie's little life is a great blessing she lives for all time in her beautiful smile and her devoted and loving family.

Our love and prayers are with you all in this time of unbelievable sorrow.
The Angle Family
Jim, Rita Chelsea & Colin
(Hillcresst Drive & Grand Blanc)

Anonymous said...

To the entire Quayle Family,

You don't need to ask for prayers of strength and comfort - they have been offered up all along.

Sophie is now able to run and jump into Jesus' arms as we can only try to imagine.

Please know that our hearts share this pain with you.

God bless you all.

Jim, Di, Nikki and Matthew Lipski

Anonymous said...

Fly high sweet Sophie, your work here is done!!

Dear Quayle family,
I am so sorry that your beautiful Angel has gone home so soon. I am so sad for the emptiness that you all must feel. I will continue to pray for you and your extended families- for your strength & peace. Thank you for sharing Sophie-she made the world a better place just by being here.

Anonymous said...

May God be your strenth, we pray!

Anonymous said...

My prayers are with you and your loved ones... Like my mother Sophie is with our Father now and running and jumping and feeling free... May God Be With You All...

Anonymous said...

I go to RCHS where Mrs. Miklaski taught and am very sad to hear about Sophie. All of us are. We've done different fundraisers and have kept her and your family in our thoughts and I know things are definately tough but at least she is free and better now.

I am sooo sorry for your loss.
God Bless.

Anonymous said...

Dear Emily and Marc,

I just feel sick inside after reading this. I've been following Sophie's journey since you practically started this website and I was so hoping and praying that she'd be the one to prove the doctors wrong. I'm so deeply sorry. I just can't believe it, I read the update on Friday and thought praise God, she is doing somewhat better. I will pray for you all, that God will give you the strength you need to deal with this tragic loss. I'm just so stunned and saddened by this news. Sophie worked her way into my heart and I'm crying right now as I write this. Thank God she had such wonderful parents like you, it's obvious you both took such wonderful care of her and what a blessing to be there when she left this earth, holding her. Thankfully she is no longer suffering at all even though you'd rather have her with you here. I have 3 little girls myself and I just can't imagine how hard this is. You are in my prayers, so much so! Thank you for sharing Sophie with us, she was a beautiful angel here on earth and now the most beautiful angel in heaven. May God comfort you all and flood you with all the memories of her that make you happy, laugh and smile. Also, I wanted you to know that I loved the name you chose for this website, smiles for sophie, because the pictures of her smile were like sunshine. God bless you all!

Sincerely,
Molly Kofchur

debhmom3 said...

I am so sorry to know you are hurting right now, and am hurting with you. Please know that so many people will be lifting you up. I will consider it a privledge to meet your amazing daughter some day when I get to heaven. Praying for God to wrap his arms around you during this time...

The Hunsakers
Mark, Debbie, Mariah, Aaron and Allyson

Anonymous said...

Marc and Emily,
We are honored to have known Sophie. We will remember the many stories Marc would share with Alex, the dancing girl in velevet at last year's Christmas party (who liked one of the servers!), her visit with the Crocker Park Santa, and the beautiful princess in purple at yesterday's picnic.
Please feel the strength and love being offered to you by so many at this time.
In deepest sympathy,
Alex and Paula

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry. I have been following Sohpies story for months, and have been praying for her miracle. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Again, I am so sorry. :o(

Anonymous said...

Have been following your blog (from Ethan Powell's page). I am still praying for you all and Sophie. Go glad she is pain and tumor free now. Blessings, JudyO and family.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear about Sophie. She was a beautiful girl. My prayers are with your family. God Bless!

Anonymous said...

May God Bless and hold you close during this time. May Sophie's spirit live on in your heart.

Sophie was truly a brave little soul that unlocked love in many people's hearts.

Marian said...

Words cannot express the sorrow I am feeling for all of you. This seems to have come so fast!! I continue to pray for you.
Marian

Marian said...
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Anonymous said...

Sweet Sophie

God saw you were getting tired and cure was not to be,

So he put his arms around you, And whispered come to me.

With tearful eyes we watched you,
As you passed away.

Although we loved you dearly, We could not make you stay.

A golden heart stopped beating, Hard working hands at rest.

God broke your heart to prove he only takes the best.

May God Bless you and keep your during this time of sadness and greif.

Robin
NY

Anonymous said...

There are many Woodhaven-Brownstown teachers who are saddened by your tremendous loss. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Anonymous said...

There are many Woodhaven-Brownstown teachers who are saddened by your tremendous loss. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Anonymous said...

Many of us from Woodhaven Brownstwon Schools are saddened by the loss of your Precious Sophie. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Anonymous said...

We will continue to send our love and prayers your way.

Love, The Holland's

Jennifer said...

Dear Quayle Family,

I have been following your blog for some time now, and I have never left a message just because I cannot ever find the right words. I am quite sure I haven't the words now, but I just wish to send you our love. I think of your family often, especially as I am tucking my own children into bed. The love, grace and strength that permeates your writings has amazed and inspired me; and it has certainly touched my life.
Our love and prayers are with you.
The Rogal Family

Anonymous said...

I feel so sad for your family and I hope you all find comfort in knowing how much Sophie impacted others. You are in my thoughts.

Anonymous said...

Sophie's Family-
All though I did not know Sophie I felt her in my heart at all times. She was a beautiful girl with amazing dreams. She has now joined little Maria in there strive to find a cure.
Always on my heart,
Maggie, Fellow Westwinds memeber

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry Sophie did not get her miracle. I truly held hope. You know why? Because if anyone deserved one, it was you guys. I am glad that Sophie is no longer suffering, I wish the same were true for all of you. Always here if you need anything. Sending love and hugs your way. Misty

Kerry said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts in prayers in Chicago.

Anonymous said...

Marc and Emily,
We are deeply sorry to hear the news of Sophie's passing. We know her journey continues now to a better place.
Thank you for allowing us to share her journey. We too have learned so much from your beautiful little girl throughout this time and the two of you have also taught us many valuable things along the way. Your family has been an inspiration to all, and many times over has caused us to look at the joys of our children in a much more special way. Thank you for this, Sophie will continue to live on in our hearts and our actions as she has taught us well.
Thanks for openng your home over the past years to allow us to get to know Sophie as she stole the show at the Christmas parties. She had a way to brighten everyones day with her smile!
Know that our thoughts and prayers remain with your family. May God give you the strength you need as you go through these sorrowful times.
We love you and again thank you for allowing us to be a part of Sophie's Journey!

God Bless,
Jeff and Susan Miller

Anonymous said...

My deepest sympathies on the loss of your sweet daughter. Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers.

Susan/Angel_Wings

Anonymous said...

Susie & Frank and especially Marc & EMily I'm sorry for your tremendous loss but you have gained sooo much on your journey---more faith, friends and love than you could have ever imagined. Riverview has rooted for her since hearing of the news long ago. The song is a great way to remember her.
Peace be with you all.

Anonymous said...

i am so sorry for the lost that you have come to. I myself do know what it feels like to lose a child that is sick. My prayers and thought are with you and your family at this time in need. My entire family is behind you and your family on this. I've read all the blogs that you have written about Sophie. Even though she was on this earth for a very short amount of time; always remeber that she really will never leave you. Losing a child is one of the worst things in life to go through; just remember that your family and friends are there for you and your family.

Brooke R.
sarah's husband's Matt Smith's cousin

Anonymous said...

Marc, Emily & Sarah,
Please know that we continue to hold you all in our hearts and in our prayers. We are so terribly sorry for your loss of your sweet and beautiful little Sophie. She was truly an angel on earth and has now become the angel guarding over you from above.
God Bless you all with love and comfort.
Tim, Barb & Patrick Fahey

Anonymous said...

Lifting you and your family and extended family all up to the Lord our God for comfort, peace and love. Angel_Wings

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. I have followed this site for months, and I have hoped that Sophie would defy the odds. It isn't fair for certain children and parents to have to go through this incredible pain, but I do believe that Sophie is with God now. May God bless your family.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Sophie. I pray that God gives you comfort, strength, & peace during this time. You will continue to be in my thoughts & prayers.

Tara Pressnell
Athens, Alabama

Anonymous said...

I have been following your blog for some time now as well as many others and my heart goes out to you and your family. One never has the right words to say but may she rest in peace.

The Johnson family, Lincoln Park, MI

Anonymous said...

I was a student of your mothers. I can remember being so excited to have her as a teacher, I had heard many good things about her. Now all I can feel is guilt because I was selfish in wanting Mrs. Miklaski back when she needed to be with her family. I am truly sorry.
I can only hope that in the days to come you can find strength in yourself to pull through this horrendous journey. I've prayed many times that sophie would be safe and sound and now she is. I send all my love and support to you and your family. Just remember that she was not taken from us in god's greed but instead to teach us a lesson that life is to short to always be upset, that we need to laugh at the simple things, and enjoy every breathe we are fortunate enough to take.

love always

Anonymous said...

My heart feels heavy for those she left behind. My heart feels inspired by the many lives she touched. May her memories envelop your family with love and comfort during this difficult time.
Great Peace to you, Julienne Montour

Anonymous said...

It's hard to find the words to say. When I got the email about Sophie's passing, my heart sunk. You have been through a parent's worst fear and must feel a huge gaping hole in your heart. I am so sorry for the tremendous loss of your beautiful daughter, Sophie. I have and will continue to pray for you and your family.
Amber Peters

Anonymous said...

Emily and Marc,

Everyone here in the old neighborhood will be thinking of you and in prayer for Sophie.

God bless all of you.

The Tuckers
Cincinnati

Anonymous said...

DEAR QUAYLE FAMILY; ANGEL BRIAN MONTGOMERY'S MOM CALLED ME TO TELL ME ABOUT SOPHIE; SHE NOW PLAYS IN HEAVEN; CANCER FREE; WITH BRIAN. WE ARE THE ONES WHO SENT HER THE BRIAN'S BUDDIE AT ST. JUDES. PEACE AND COMFORT TO YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY. WHAT A BEAUTIFUL ANGEL THAT GOD HAS TONIGHT. GOD BLESS JOANNE AND ELIZ (BRIAN'S BUDDIES, ROOTSTOWN, OHIO")

Laura said...

Dear Quayle Family,

I am another longtime reader who never left comments. I was so shocked and stunned to read today of the loss of your precious girl. There really are no words, such a loss is beyond devastating. I'll always think of Sophie and her sweet smile. I'll never forget her even though I'm just a random internet person. Your family's grace, faith and love has been remarkable and inspiring. Sophie has changed lives.

Anonymous said...

Dear Marc Emily & Family,

I wish to offer my deepest sympathy, my heartfel condolances and my deppest wish for the pain that you fell to be absolved through the help of all other followers of the site. In the short time I have known you all, I saw nothing butcare, compassion, understanding, belief, hope and prayere, the truest form of what love is. Know that I will still ALWAYS be thinking you you guys, and my time there with Sophie. Please know that if there is anything you ever need, if there is anything I can ever do, I am there. All the Best to you and the entire family. May G-d accompany Sophie personally on her next journey.


Josh

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. Otober is respect life month and the month of the rosary. Our priest asked if everyone could pray 1 decade of the rosary each day until the last day of October. I am doing this and praying for a cure for this horrible disease when I pray each decade.

Yvonne

Anonymous said...

MArc and Emily, We don't know each other but I wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I am deeply, deeply saddened by this news and wanted to tell you that I will never forget your darling, bright daughter. God Bless you in this time of grief that you once again have peace.

Anonymous said...

Bless you all. My thoughts and prayers and those of my family are with you.

Bill

Unknown said...

God Bless all of your family, I work with your aunt toni and richard so I have been following along with your story. I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Stacey

Anonymous said...

Marc and Emily,

We will never forget Sophie. Thank you for sharing your beautiful girl with us. She has touched so many lives. Your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Geoff and Emily

Anonymous said...

I was praying for Sophie and your family in church this past Sunday morning not realizing she had past the night before. When I checked your website later that day I was shocked and so saddened by your loss. I have two young children and can't begin to imagine what you are going through. Please know that there are strangers like me all over the world praying for your family and for Sophie.
-A friend in New Jersey.

Anonymous said...

I have been trying to think of words to write for awhile now. There are none other than we are so, so very sorry.

The Simmons'

Anonymous said...

May today there be peace within you.May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. Sophie is now your own personal guardian angle. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Anonymous said...

I opened Sophie's page this morning only for my heart to break into a million pieces. I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl.

Sophie is no longer in pain. Please know that our thoughts will be with all of your in the coming days.

Thinking of Sophie's family in East Moline, Illinois.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. She was truly an angel. My thoughts are with your family.

M.K.

Anonymous said...

Marc and Emily, I was heartbroken to hear the news. You and your entire family are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.

The Slater Family

Anonymous said...

Emily and Marc,

I am truly sorry for your loss of your Sophie. Jen Slater sent me the e-mail in May of this year of her diagnosis. My daughter Julia and I prayed for her and your family; that God would heal her and give you and your husband strength. We never get to know why...I think that's the hardest part. My uncle died in my grandma's arms when he was eight...I was always amazed by her strength. Julia, Jeff, Ryan, and I will continue to always pray for you and your family for strength in the Lord, healing, and endurance through this life until you can be with your sweet Sophie again. For those who are in Christ, there is the hope of eternal life. This is the greatest promise. Death has been conquered by the blood of Jesus and when the will of God has been completed, then this promise will be fulfilled. Endure to the promise...May God bless you with strength and peace always.

Jennie (Fraser) and Jeff Schrameck
Ryan and Julia too

Unknown said...

Dear Emily, Marc, Baby Sarah & Family,

My heart broke when I opened my e-mail this morning and saw the news about sweet little Sophie. She is in heaven now, smiling that beautiful smile down on everyone - especially all of you who showed her so much love throughout her life. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Love, Tracy Dunn & Family

Anonymous said...

I have been following Sophie for some time now. I, like many others, do not know any of you personally but was so touched by your story and by Sophie that I made it a point to read up on her progress on a daily or weekly basis. For some reason she stuck out to me when I saw her beautiful face. It made me smile to see such a happy little girl with the best smile, she was adorable!! I have prayed for your family for many months now, praying for her miracle. I can now picture her smiling face having so much fun in heaven; laughing loudly and running around everywhere. I have also been in awe over what amazing parents you are! Just from reading about Sophie and her life the two of you gave her all that you had. I only pray that there were many more parents out there who loved their children the way that you have. I can only imagine the pain that you must have but then I think about Sophie again, no suffering, no pain, running, being that amazing little girl that she always was. God Bless you all. Jesus saves!

Anonymous said...

Dear Quayle Family,

I have followed Sophie's story for many months and have prayed daily for her and all of you. You have my most heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your beautiful daughter. I am sure that Maria welcomed her with open arms. I will continue to pray for your strength.

Anonymous said...

You don't know me but mrs.miklaski was my teacher..i am sorry for your loss, your little angel is now in heaven with jesus..
bless you all<3

Anonymous said...

Although you do not know me, I have been following your website for sometime. I am so sorry to here of the loss of this precious child. She is absolutely beautiful, with such an amazing smile. Please take comfort in knowing that she is once again whole with no pain and no frustration. She is bringing so much joy to Heaven. I know that she will continue to watch over you and your family and she will be your smiling angel. Please know that you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

I love the words to the following song, and just wanted to share them with you.

Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wind of heaven's love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again

Fly, fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forevermore
But hold this mem'ry bittersweet
Until we meet

Fly, fly do not fear
Don't waste a breath, don't shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, don't wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I won't forget

Fly, fly little wing
Fly where only angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light

MT-Utah

Anonymous said...

I have Smiles for Sophie, knowing that she is in a better place. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
God Bless, Jodi May

Anonymous said...

I have Smiles for Sophie, knowing that she is in a better place with the our Lord Jesus!! Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Take care and God Bless,
Jodi May
Woodhaven, MI

Shea Marie said...

Emily, Marc and Sarah,
It's hard to find the right words to say right now. I want to express my deepest sympathy. You all are in our thoughts and our prayers all the time. I am so sorry and deeply saddened, what a beautiful little girl. My mom was always keeping me updated, showing me pictures and showing me things she bought for Sophie. This website is truly amazing, and reading all the things people write it's amazing and inspiring how many lives Sophie touched. May God give you the strength and comfort you need during this time. We are all thinking about you and praying for you.
Love always,
Shea Petranovic and all your family from California.

Anonymous said...

May today there be peace within you. May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.

Anonymous said...

Sweet Sophie,with such a smile! Your stay here was too short, but, who am I to judge, as you surely taught me my lesson well. Strange that your mother mentioned a rainbow, because I saw one just Friday night and it stayed perfect for a little while, just like you. Keep a good eye on your parents, they're going to need it and that little Yahoo too. Fly high and free, Sophie! We'll all try to take comfort in the fact that their is so much more going on than we know. More love then their is space in the universe, Aunt Lynne

Rich said...

Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please know that Sophie is now free of this tumor and able to run and play with all of the other children who went before her. Please know that I'm sure my son Matthew and all of the other children, greeted Sophie upon her arrival. Please hold on to your memories of Sophie, they will help you through those hard days.

God Bless.

Rich McGowan (Angel Matthew's Dad)
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/matthewmcgowan

Anonymous said...

The news of Sophie saddens everyone at RCHS. Everyone is praying for you guys. Rest in Peace Sophie <3

Anonymous said...

i will be praying for you and your family, stay strong!

Anonymous said...

Dear Quayle Family:
I have no words to describe how much my heart aches for you and how sorry I am to hear of Sophie's passing. You have been so gracious to allow us into your lives. You gave this fight every ounce of your will, dedication, and love for Sophie that was possible. I am inspired by you and your family to be a better parent and person. I think of you several times a day and can't stop myself from crying. I am so sorry and so sad for you. I hope knowing so many people care can bring a bit of warmth to you. Your daughter is a beautiful angel, on Earth and in Heaven.

Anonymous said...

Marc, Emily and Sarah,

May God wrap you in His arms and comfort you as you grieve the loss of Sophie. He is hugging her up in Heaven. Sending our love and prayers,

Nate and Julie from Michigan

Anonymous said...

I too have been following Sophie's story through a link from Ethan Powell's website. I am so sorry to hear of you loss. I cannot imagine your pain. I have been praying for Sophie and now that she is home in God's loving arms, happy and whole again I will continue to pray for God's peace for you and your family.
Praying in CA.
Siobhain

Anonymous said...

To Sophie's Family,
I just wanted to send a quick note along to let you know that even though I didn't know Sophie, I've been following her page for a few months now and I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I am heartbroken for you and I know words are meaningless right now but I am sending you so much love from North Carolina and wishing peace for your family. Sophie is a beautiful, perfect child and now also a beautiful, perfect angel.

Joanne Fontana

Anonymous said...

Dear Qualye family,

I have followed your story for a few months! My heart was drawn to your precious little girl....and that SMILE! The Lord has entrusted you with this and your faith has been made stronger! May the Lord continue to comfort you until you see her again....In Jesus Name!

In His Service,
The Blair's--LA

Anonymous said...

I recieved the e-mail from Susie early Sunday morning. I am so sorry that Sophie did not recieve her miracle, but I know Sophie herself was the greatest miracle. She has touched so many people, including those who have never met her, but have spent countless hours thinking of her, and your family, and praying.
I sold bracelets at my work (Dearborn Police Dept). I saw some strong men moved to tears by your sweet Sophie's story. We will all be praying that God will comfort you and your family in this time. Thank you for sharing your sweet Angel with us.

the editor said...

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your sweet Sophie. These words seem so insignificant. God bless you all and may He give you comfort and peace.

Carolyn- Long Island, NY

Anonymous said...

So sorry for the loss of your sweet little angel. You will be in our prayers.

Anonymous said...

I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that you did all that you could, that you treasured the moments you had with Sophie, that she is no longer in pain, and that she touched many, many people in her short life. You may never how far-reaching her impact on the world is.

You and your family are in our hearts.
Rick and Holly Austin

Anonymous said...

I want you to know that my prayers are with you. I have been following this blog and it has touched my heart. I have been praying for Sophie every night. Sophie was the cutest little girl I have ever seen. God bless you all.
-Meg from St. Louis

Anonymous said...

No words can say how sorry I am for your loss. Sophie has touched the lives of millions, more than you will ever know. It broke my heart to hear of Sophie's passing. She is in Heaven now & looking down on all of us. Marc & Emily you need to stay strong, not just for yourself but for little Sarah too. Do not let this tragedy end something that once so WONDERFUL created this special little girl. Sophie loved her family & know that even though a lot of us do not know you, we do too. Fight for the love that created Sophie and may she bless you with ever ending presence.

Anonymous said...

we love you guys so much.. yall stay strong. -:AL-

Anonymous said...

As I write this, I can barely see the keyboard through my tears. Sophie was such a darling girl. I have two small children of my own, and can not imagine the heartache you must have. Through the many months of reading your posts, you have made me so aware of how precious each and everyday is with our children. Sophie was so strong and loving - and it is not hard to see where she got it from. You are wonderful parents. My heart goes out to you. Amy - Avon,OH

Anonymous said...

Hello my name is Staci and I'm a student and I was doing a project on brain tumor and I saw a little girl named Trinity in our local paper here in Fort Worth, TX. I decided to do my project on this particular disorder. I also got to look at your beautiful daughters pictures and site. I cannot imagine your loss. I have two kids of my own. My prayers are with you, and I'm sure your daughter would be proud that you'll are such strong parents. I wish I could pay my respects in person but I live in Texas and am just a student and can't afford it. But I will pray for you and your family. God Bless!

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful child. I too have suffered that loss, and I know that there are no words that could comfort you during this difficult time. I will be praying for your strength and peace.

Denise Martin (mom to Angel Taylor)
www.taysplace.com

Anonymous said...

You have my sympathy. I don't know there are really appropriate words to say at this point in a persons life. I just wanted you to know that little Sophie touched more lives than you even realized. I am in North Carolina and was sent the link to your daughters site a couple of months ago. I also passed it on to others in hopes that the more prayers that were offered on your family's behalf, the more peace you'd feel. May God continue blessing your family with peace and comfort during this difficult time. We may never know the reason things like this happen but God knows the ultimate plan and obviously has something wonderful in store for Sophie.

Anonymous said...

SOPHIE HAS HER SMILE BACK FINALLY!!! My heart breaks for those she's left behind and you will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

sunShine said...

I don't even have the words to express my sympathy to you and your family. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

jenhealan said...

The angels are rejoicing. A child has come home.

Anonymous said...

My little jordan has a new friend today. Oh how I know they run and play. Although we are sad here below our strength in the lord now must grow. As hard as it is too get through the day I will see you agian through the lord which I pray.

Anonymous said...

Although I am only a friend of a friend of a frind of Sophie's grandma's, I cannot stop thinking of Sophie's sweet smile, and how much pain you are in now, knowing that you cannot squeeze those those little chubby cheeks anymore. She will be missed by sssooooo many people that love her. Some of whom she has never met. Please know that Sophie was a fortunate little girl to have you all!!!!! Your immense and generous love is apparent to anyone that has followed your blog. May it be of some comfort to you, while you try to heal your hearts. My family is praying for you now, as much as ever. XO

Anonymous said...

We were so very sorry to here about Sophie. Our prayers are with all of you. We hope you will find peace and comfort in this most difficult time.

God Bless,

Keith & Rhonda Blakely
Holly, Mi.

Anonymous said...

All of us at RCHS are keeping Sophie in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers. We were very sorry to here about Sophie.

Anonymous said...

Sophie is beaming down on you and your family. She doesn't want you to be full of sorrow and pain right now. Be strong for her. Though I couldn't even begin to feel the pain that you DO feel right now, just always remember that Sophie is fighting it with you. Feel her strength in you to keep living your life to the fullest, until that precious day when you are reunited with your beautiful girl again.

Sophie was an angel to everyone; even those who did not know your family personally, like me. She's touched thousands of hearts, from your hometown across the world. Thank you for sharing this with everyone. You did everything you possibly could for Sophie, and she knew that. She knew.

Sophie was always a beautiful angel living on Earth, and now she's a beautiful angel living in Heaven.
Fly High, Sophie!!!!

Anonymous said...

I just wanted to let you know how Sophie has touched my life...I heard about Sophie from a friend months ago, and have followed your story ever since. My daughter is the same age as Sophie--they were born in the same month. Sophie has made me hold my daughter and her brother more tightly, she has made me not get irritated when I am woken up in the middle of the night for another bad dream...instead, I hug and kiss her, and let her sleep with me--she has made me appreciate every moment that I have with my kids, because you never know what is going to happen tomorrow. I know that you would give anything to hold Sophie just one more night...Even though I never met her, I will be thinking of Sophie when my daughter hits those big milestones--Kindergarden, High School, College--because Sophie should be doing those things as well. Just know, as the years pass, even though you may not know it, people will remember. I will remember. I am SO sorry for the loss of your special little sweetheart.

Anonymous said...

Mom, Please listen to me

Mom, please listen to me
As I take time to write.
I see parents struggling daily.
Their pain is such a fight.

All of us who have gone on
And left the rest of you behind..
We're ok, Mom, I promise..
Heaven is beautiful, and God is kind.

You used to tell me that one day
God would call and take you home.
You told me you'd make me strong
So I would stand tall when alone.

But things happen sometimes, Mom
That does not go in our plans.
I wasn't scared, Mom,
When God held out his hand.

I didn't want to leave you.
I didn't have time to say good bye
When the angels said, "Come with us.",
There wasn't time to question why.

I've watched you daily, Mom.
It hurts to see you cry.
I don't want you to be unhappy,
Just because we didn't get to say good bye.

Tell the others what I'm telling you,
So many parents need to know
That Earth was just a lay over
We had another place to go.

I know you miss me, Mom
I know your heart was broken in two,
But God really needed me
Because my earthly life was through.

I'm always alongside you..
I smile and touch your hair.
I whisper "Mom, I love you",
You just can't see me there.

I'm the one who gently touches you
On your shoulder when you're sad.
I'm happy now that you finally found
God again, and are no longer mad.

Tell the parents, Mom, for me
That all of us kids are okay.
God had plans for our lives
When he called us home that day.

I love you, Mom, I always will
And remember I'm not far away.
We're going to be together
When God calls out your name.